Hurt People Hurt People

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Throughout the course of the week  the central theme coming through for me is the vital importance of creating a sense of belonging, of valuing everyone and of being truly inclusive in our education systems. Yesterday Jeff Howard talked about the vicious circle of underdevelopment in American education where children are often viewed as having a ‘fixed’ intelligence and where educators and parents have low expectations of certain groups ability to achieve. He stated it is important to develop all in our schools because “developed people are free to find meaning to find quality lives and to leave a legacy of wisdom and humanity”. To him this quite simply means we must create proficient pupils and develop a strong character in all. If people have a strong character we realise that our behaviour matters, we understand the principle of proper conduct and we choose to apply these in our lives at all times, not just when we are being watched. To do this we must work with families and communities and understand that as members of society we have our part to play in teaching young people to behave and learn instead of thinking we can’t do anything about it. We are all responsible and can’t just blame society.

This message and the themes running through this summer school were brought sharply into focus for me last night when we visited the Holocaust memorial in Boston. The memorial consists of 6 number of high towers etched with millions of numbers representing the numbers tattooed on those killed in concentration camps. This was a very powerful, deeply moving experience for me. I had such overwhelming feeling of disbelief that man could do this to man, and equally disturbing is the thought that inhumanities are still occurring all over the world.

It was an extremely humbling experience and for me really drove home the message that if we do not actively foster a sense of belonging, of valuing people and of being truly inclusive we could create the circumstances which allow atrocities like the holocaust to take place and destroy the lives of individuals and whole sections of society.

 ‘Hurt people hurt people’ – Jeff Howard 

For me my challenge is to ensure that I do what I can do to stop this happening and to ensure that generations of children in our schools do not lose out. And that they receive the appropriate education which enables them to actively and constructively participate in our society.

“Unaccepted Attack of Help”

In the course of Norman Kunc’s thought provoking presentation about Inclusive Education, he described a situation, which is all too familiar, both in school and, in society as a whole.
Often, educators, at all levels, can find themselves, when working with disabled people, involved in providing an “unaccepted attack of help.” This is where the support that someone is offering to a disabled person is very different to that which is actually required – and all because no one has given the disabled person the opportunity to actually outline and detail the help they need.


The intention in a situation like this is well meaning. However people without a disability see things through their lack of disability and, as such, they do not always see things accurately. As Norman, a disabled person himself outlined, very often the disabled person does not require or indeed want the help, which is forced upon them.
We, as educators, need to be mindful of this and take account of it when engaging with disabled pupils in our schools. Such imposed, unnecessary help can actually do more harm than good in that it can inhibit the development of independence in a young person. Also it can be detrimental in allowing them to exist in as inclusive an environment as possible i.e. they can be made to feel unnecessarily different due to input which does nothing more than “single them out.” This can lead to stigma being attached to the disabled person and this goes against all we are trying to create in our schools in terms of inclusion for all pupils.
Norman Kunc feels that it is, more often than not, fairly straightforward, in avoiding such unacceptable attacks of help. The person who has the most relevant and accurate information about a child, his/her disability and the help he/she does actually require is the child themselves and/or their family. We need to ask them about the appropriate help and support that is required. Yes, other agencies can and should be involved but the child and their family should be central to the process wherever possible.
Kunc issues a warning in that, as practitioners we should never see expertise in working with disabled pupils and their families as giving us the power to decide upon the help they require. He says that this leads to generalisation and it often actually leads to the practitioner taking over and this undermines a child’s authority.   We should always “trust the experience over the expertise.” It is only the experience in working with each and every individual youngster and their family that then gives us the information required to make available the correct support for that person.
Kunc gives a very interesting example of approach in the “October Rule.” If a child enters school at the start of the session discussions regarding a support / help package should not take place until October. The reason for this is that the period between August and October should be used as a time of evaluation where a pupil and their family are able to assess the actual support they are going to need – an interesting consideration!
Kunc is of the view that we live in a society which values perfection and that this must change. I share his thinking here. Life is supposed to be messy and ambiguous and we, as practitioners, need to continue to try and assist all pupils, disabled or not, in finding those magical moments of learning where we all achieve our potential.
In Scotland, recent developments in terms of meeting the needs of all, are very encouraging. With the introduction of the Additional Support for Learning Act, each and every child is at the centre of all discussions about their needs and any additional help they may require. I emphasise here again the need to support and help every child - every child may, at some time in their development, require some additional support and the new Act allows us to take account of this and the wide and varied needs that may be involved here. This for me is what we mean by a real, inclusive approach to education!
 

On being one of the girls

 

When I learned that I was going out to Harvard with five female colleagues I have to admit to some trepidation:

  • What would my wife say?
  • Would I feel out on a limb?
  • Would they drive me nuts?

Well my experience so far - Day 5 - has been exceptional.  What a great group of people they are but perhaps more importantly I think I have gained an insight into what it is to “be one the girls”.

So what’s different from being “one of the boys”?

That’s actually more difficult to answer than you might think but there is definitely something.  The obvious answer would be to say that they are more caring, consensual and supportive and I suppose that these are characteristics that I have observed. However, it’s more subtle than that - and I think it’s got something to do with the way that they carry out conversations.

I know I shouldn’t generalise from my experience but I think they listen and want to hear from each other - rather than just always wanting to contribute or push their own ideas.  I wonder if male conversations aren’t just a little bit more ‘competitive’ i.e. I listen and then I want to top it by recounting my experience or idea.  The women don’t seem to work that way the conversations are all the more enjoyable and possibly productive for that. Now I know my presence is corrupting that true “girls” environment but at least I’ve been given an insight into a very different world.  Thanks Girls.

Oh and my wife - well I think I now understand why she likes a night out with the girls - she joins me out here on Thursday - so I’m looking forward to her meeting my “girls”

Inclusion as Belonging - for all

I thought I had a good handle on Inclusive Education - how wrong could I have been?!

Norman Kunc is a formidable personality who negotiated his own way into mainstream education at the age of the 13 having been educationally segregated from birth due to cerebral palsy.

My colleagues will focus on other aspects of his presentation but I thought I ‘d concentrate on how inclusive education relates to school culture for all.

Norman’s main premise is that the debate is not around the principle of inclusion - it’s about where that “line of inclusion” is - “we can take this child but we can’t take that child.” 

“But if there is a line you’d expect it to be the same everywhere” the reality is that this line varies hugely from school to school. 

 So Norman posed the $64,000 question

“Why do schools vary so much in the way in which they deal with variation?”

For Norman Kunc the answer is simple - Inclusion is about school culture “a school has to commit to all of it’s kids”

He wasn’t talking here about “benevolence” or “social kindness” but about a proactive commitment to promote a sense of belonging - for all children. Some schools have ot some don’t.

He used Maslow’s hierarchy to explore the relationship between self esteem  and belonging  i.e. we can only experience self esteem if we belong. Yet Norman Kunc would argue that our society reverses this by valuing self esteem - which relates to mastery and in turn such things as attainment - above belonging.  The extent to which we therefore feel a sense of belonging is therefore conditional upon how well we display mastery over the things which society values - his paper sets out more clearly

I was really taken by Norman’s assertion that we often replace belonging with allegiance - which is usually held together by focussing upon a common enemy - all to often leaders at all levels create a common enemy to build allegance but not belonging “it’s us against them” - whoever “they” might be.

So how do you go about build  a sense of belonging in your school? - for Norman Kunc you do it by asking yourself two questions:

Where does belonging get eroded in my school? and

What can I do about it?

For me it keeps coming back to unconditional positive regard - for every member of our school communities - so easy to say so difficult to achieve.

Last point - but as a consequence of this presentation I feel I need to come off the fence about one thing which I believe destroys a sense of belonging in many schools - and that’s setting or ability grouping - which we do to promote (without any evidence) academic attainment - i.e. valuing mastery over belonging.

Offering Support Or Building Dependency

I listened to Norman Kunc and Emma Van der Klift today talking about Inclusion. This lecture was extremely powerful and thought provoking. It emphasised the importance of building a ‘sense of belonging’ for staff and pupils in order to allow them to grow and learn. Two things that stood out for me during this lecture were:

  • the importance of listening to those with experience, mainly pupils and their families.
  • How we provide support in schools to ensure that the needs of the children are really met. Making sure it is the child’s needs and not the teacher’s needs

Often the support we think people require is not actually what is needed. Without taking time to ascertain the need by asking those who have the experience we will struggle to get it right.

For me one of the most important skills we can instil in our pupils is independence – the ability to initiate the support we require. There are different kinds of support for teacher that can be put in place to assist inclusion. Some of these highlighted by Norman and Emma were:

Information, collaborative planning, shared agreement on goals and expectations, classroom and school based support, classroom assistant and administrative support.

Too often people think that the answer of ‘support’ is additional staffing. Pupils who have someone there to scribe for them, carry their bags and be with them all the time may be being robbed of their independence and their ability to find solutions for themselves. We need to ensure that ALL pupils are leaving school with life skills and are not too dependent on others. ‘Avoid co-dependent symbiotic relationships’.

It is imperative that we ask the pupils and their families how we can support them and what works best for them. Norman Kunc suggested that the first question we ask pupils with a disability is ‘How can I help you?’ Shouldn’t we ask all pupils this?

This would allow us to focus on the experience rather than make generalisations which could lead to mistakes and misunderstanding.

The use of ‘passports’ and ‘My meeting booklets’ for pupils with ASN are an excellent tool to ensure that the pupils voice is heard. We must also be listening at other times to these children to guarantee that we do not overpower them with unnecessary support. We must allow them to feel valued and respected – providing a sense of belonging. Emma Van der Klift spoke about how important it is to ask pupil what their dream/vision is. As teachers we need to know this if we want to assist pupils along their path.

‘Relationships are the only way to get authentic influence’.

Challenging Assumptions

How often do we find our assumptions challenged in a very powerful way which has quite a profound impact upon us. For me this morning’s session was such an occasion.

As we entered Longfellow Hall for a session on inclusive education by Norman Kunc I was surprised to see a man in a wheel chair sitting on the podium. I was even more surprised when it became clear he was Norman Kunc and was our speaker for the morning. As he started to speak I realised he had cerebral palsy and physical difficulties and speech difficulties. I sat listening to him wondering how on earth I would be able to understand him and be able to listen to him for the next 3 hours and take anything meaningful from the session. How wrong could I be? The lecture was profound, moving and challenging. But for me the most challenging aspect came in the section of the session where Norman was discussing how to support teachers in an inclusive school and in particular how society perceives disabled people.

Norman asked us how many of us had thought at the start of the lecture there was no way they could listen to a disabled guy (his words) with a speech difficulty speak for 3 hours and the majority of people in the room fell into that category. He then went on to discuss how society perceives disability. For him his disability is one tenth of who he is. And the other nine tenths is an ‘ordinary’ individual. But research has shown that most often society perceives the disability as the defining characteristic of a disabled person and does not see the person beneath the disability.

I realised that that was exactly what I had done this morning but as the lecture developed I found that I was no longer focussing on the disability but on the lecture and didn’t see Norman as a disabled man but as a highly intelligent individual from whom I could learn so much.

For me this was a very powerful message that too often in life we can have preconceived ideas about people and we need to consider the whole person and if our society is to be truly inclusive we need to see people for who they are not what they are.

This video says it all!!!!